i charted for like eight months on advice of Dr. then went to Dr AND nurse practitioner no one wanted to see it. i almost give up

One thing is for sure, if you give up trying, there will never be an answer. I've never had an answer in 20 years of suffering. But I've figured you have to find your own answers. There is no magic treatment. Everything has side effects, sometimes things don't work. But If you give up, you'll never find peace. I wish you luck and strength, and be firm, write a formal letter of complaint if they aren't listening. Good luck x